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Thursday, September 4, 2008

AHHH, Election Season

I can’t take it anymore; I’ve got to say something. Most of you who know me well know that I am a political wonk, strongly driven by conviction and values. I am a Matthew 25 believing, social justice loving, bleeding heart liberal, blue dog Democrat. AMEN? I love politics. And I really love how engaged so many previously apathetic voters are in this year’s election process, largely due to Barack Obama’s candidacy.

But I must be honest, I feel out of the loop and out of touch. Getting engaged and planning a wedding to take place 6 weeks before Election Day in November has seriously limited my political involvement this season. Now don’t get me wrong, I could not be happier that our wedding day is 16 DAYS AWAY!! But all spring and summer I have felt just a little sad that I haven’t been working at the headquarters or knocking on doors like I’ve done in the past. I mean, Matt and I met during campaign season in 2006 while I was working for John Bailes in the local County Commission race, sigh :(. We held hands for the first time at a Harold Ford Jr. rally, again :(. I so artfully outed Matt as a Democrat to his Republican friends the 2nd day I knew him. Because the 1st day I met him, I asked my 2nd most important screening question, “Who did you vote for in the last Presidential election?” (My most important question is, “Are you a Christian?” which technically I didn’t have to ask because he and I went to the same church) When I met Matt I had officially and decidedly sworn off dating Republicans; it just never worked well for me.

Anyway, I’ve been excited about this election since February (and looking forward to it since, oh November 3, 2004!). I’ve watched as the nation really participated in the primary process and anxiously waited to see which history-making candidate would immerge. I’ve been in Obama’s camp since the day Edwards dropped out (don’t get me started on THAT disappointment). I respect Hillary, but she can’t pull anybody in the South that is sitting the fence. Folks just really can’t stand her, but I digress.

Even though I’ve been a little out of touch, I have been watching the conventions (DVR’d) for the most part. I didn’t see last night’s RNC and Sarah Palin’s speech, but from what I have heard about it, I’m glad I was working on wedding stuff. Through conversations with friends and news articles, I’ve been able to glean that it was harsh to say the least and pushing the lines of total disrespect. I actually heard a Republican pundit on the radio yesterday say, “This election isn’t about policy; it’s about the person. Elections shouldn’t be about policy. They should be about electing the right person to lead.”

Well, YES elections are about electing the right person to lead. I agree with that. But I’m certainly not going to IGNORE WHICH DIRECTION that person is going to lead this country!!!! Are you kidding me?? That’s how we ended up with the last cowboy President. People voted for him because he’s somebody they could kick back and have a beer with; he has a sense of humor, BIG FREAKIN’ DEAL. Look what he’s done!! Whew. Anyway, I find it insulting that they blast Obama for being a “celebrity” and then ask voters to treat this election like a popularity/ beauty contest without considering the policies that will shape this nation for years to come!! Do they think we are stupid? UM YES, they actually count on it. They count on voters being swayed by the politics of fear, false claims to value families (when most families are drowning right now), and bandaids that won’t hold for problems that need REAL SOLUTIONS – POLICY SOLUTIONS. Problems like ending the war in Iraq, energy independence, health care, the price of food and gas, global warming, Social Security, economic outsourcing, failing schools, gender pay inequity, stem cell research that could help us cure the worst diseases of our generation, these are all things that we MUST address instead of sticking our heads in the sand!!! The answer can no longer be ‘pull yourself up by your bootstraps’ and ‘drill baby drill’.

Come on people. Join us. Take Washington back from the oil companies and the top 5% of wealthiest Americans. It’s time our government worked for us again. It’s time that we had someone trying to give us a boost when we need it. It’s time that Washington is focused on the problems that ACTUALLY affect our families, like whether there are enough good paying jobs with health benefits out there for people who can and want to work. A strong and healthy middle class is the key to a strong and healthy America. Let’s stop the middle class disappearance and fight for POLICIES that can turn this country around.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Bridal Brunch in Muscle Shoals

Well, we had my hometown Bridal Brunch this past Saturday in Muscle Shoals, AL at my Aunt Pam's house. Everything was just lovely, and so many friends and family members traveled a long way to attend. I really felt special. Aunt Pam and Aunt Donna put so much work into everything (the food was FABULOUS), thank you both so much!!

The spread of wonderful brunch food



Me with the hostesses, Donna on the left and Pam on the right


A photo of all the Trousdale ladies (minus Erika who couldn't come). We are such a goodlooking family!!




Mom's 3rd cousin, Trudy and her mother Celestine came from Anniston, AL.


There was a tissue paper bride contest. Rachel and Jennifer volunteered to be the models and I was the judge. Rachel won for her fabulous ensamble of butt bows!!


















Jennifer is lovely though...



Betsy, me and Christie















Ann (who I've known since I was 7), Betsy, me, Christie









Mom and Donna didn't want to waste any of the mimosas after the party was over!!!


Matt and I received some wonderful gifts and it was so great to see everyone. We are truly blessed with amazing friends and families. We are looking forward to our wedding ONE MONTH FROM TODAY!!!!

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Rubber Ducky, you're the one!!!

I just can't help but post this picture. This is our godson Joshua. He seems to really enjoy bathtime and his rubber ducky. How cute is he????

Beautiful Bridal Tea and Fabulous Friends!!!

I promised to post some pictures of the fabulous bridal tea hosted by Brenda (my godmother), Ashley (bridesmaid), and Meredith (one of two maids of honor). It was hosted at Meredith's house and everything they put together was just beautiful. Matt and I received lots of lovely gifts from our registry, and a couple of really special sentimental ones too. Here are some pictures from the shower.

The spread!! The champagne punch was fabulous!!!

The lovely hostesses and me (R-L: Ashley, Meredith, Jill, and Brenda)



This is Sweetpea; she was a "behind the scenes" hostess (so was her Mommy Lauren)



This is Tatum (Tater-bug, Tater-tot); she was also a "behind the scenes" hostess. Even though she is quite the nervous pooch, she was very well behaved!!













Mom and me, isn't this a good picture???








Mother of the Bride Jan, bride Jill, Future-Mother-in-Law Lisa





Mom, me, and Brenda




Lamm (Ashley), Meredith, and me



The girls from First-Centenary UMC



After the party was all over, Matt came by to help load up the loot!! Thanks hunny!!